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Nestled by the tree-lined River Medway near Aylesford is the principal house of the Carmelite religious order that came to Kent in 1242. A compelling story of the Friars and the Carmelites of Aylesford who were forced from their priory in 1538 only to return 400 years later in 1949, is told in the artworks and buildings discovered on a short walk through the grounds. Here you’ll come across one of the finest intact medieval courtyards in England, 17th-century thatched barns and a hostelry for pilgrims dating to the late 1200s.

In its 750-year history, this venerable oasis has changed use many times. In the centuries after the Reformation, the monastic was converted into an opulent stately home. Merchant bankers, Royalists during the Civil War, Second World War servicemen and even the leader of a Scout group have all left their mark. 

When the Carmelite family returned in the mid-20th century, they restored the tranquil gardens, built chapels and adorned them with distinguished ceramic artworks. Father Malachy Lynch who spearheaded the reconstruction, memorably described the Friars as a “prayer in stone”.

The 13th Century

In 1247 the Bishop of Rochester, Richard of Wendover, officially recognised the Carmelite foundation at Aylesford and the first General Chapter of the Order outside the Holy Land was held there. The Chapter effectively changed the lifestyle of the Carmelites from hermits to mendicant friars and over the next fifty years more than thirty priories were founded in England and Wales including London, Oxford and Cambridge.

Photo Caption Besides the normal licensing of friars to preach and hear confessions, the Prior of Aylesford, William Hokiton, was appointed by John Folsham the provincial, in virtue of letters granted by Peter Raymond the Prior General, to preach a crusade against the Turks in the city of London and throughout south-east England in the dioceses of Rochester, Canterbury, Chichester and Winchester. William Hokiton was also the Prior who initiated plans around 1345 for the building of a new church.

Building of the Church

The 14th Century

In 1348 at the Vigil of the Feast of the Holy Cross, the Bishop of Llandaff, John Paschal, blessed the site of the cemetery and the new church but the church was not consecrated until 1417, the delay possibly being caused by the Black Death which affected so much of the population. The dedication of the church was carried out by Richard Young, the Bishop of Rochester.

Photo Caption The first open air shrine – on the foundation of the original church

The First Open Air Shrine

The 15th Century

A tradition developed that St Simon Stock (died 1265), Prior General of the Order, had a vision of Our Lady promising her protection to those who wore the Carmelite habit, and the wearing of the scapular subsequently became an important Marian devotion. In 1417 the church was consecrated.

Caption During the spring of 1469, Thomas Scrope, Bishop of Dromore, was in Kent. He ordained candidates to the ministry at All Saints, Maidstone and Canterbury Cathedral. Thomas was a Carmelite who had annoyed his Provincial, Thomas Netter, with his sensational preaching about the Second Coming of Christ. He lived for a while as a recluse but was made a bishop by Pope Eugene IV and acted as suffragan to the Bishop of Norwich. He lived a long varied life, dying in 1491.

Sir Simon Stock

The 16th Century

In 1538 during the Dissolution of the Monasteries, The Friars passed into the hands of Sir Thomas Wyatt of Allington Castle. The Wyatts lost their lands under Queen Mary and later, in the reign of Queen Elizabeth I, Sir John Sedley took over the property. He made considerable alterations to the buildings in the 1590s.

CaptionCharles Sedley was the son of John Sedley, 2nd Baronet, of Aylesford in Kent, and his wife Elizabeth, daughter of Sir Henry Savile. The Sedleys (also sometimes spelt Sidley) had been prominent in Kent since at least 1337. Sedley's grandfather, William Sedley, was knighted in 1605 and created a baronet in 1611. He was the founder of the Sidleian Lectures of Natural Philosophy at Oxford. Sedley was educated at Wadham College, Oxford, but left without taking a degree. There, his tutor was the poet Walter Pope. The second surviving son of Sir John Sedley and Elizabeth, William, succeeded to the baronetcy in 1645. Charles Sedley inherited the title (5th baronet) in 1656 when his brother William died.

Charles Sedley

The 17th Century

Packington Hall

The Friars as a country home in the 17th century by the courtesy of the Earl of Aylesford

In 1633 Sir Peter Rycaut, a Dutch international financier, bought The Friars from the Sedley family. The Rycauts took the Royalist side at the outbreak of the Civil War in 1642; during the war The Friars was sequestrated by Parliamentary forces and served for a time as the meeting place of the Parliamentary Committee for Kent. Sir Peter died penniless in 1653 and his wife and youngest son, Sir Paul Rycaut, struggled to pay off the family's debts. Sir Paul was a renowned writer and traveller and was born at the priory in 1628 and educated at Trinity College, Cambridge, graduating in 1650. 

Sir John Sedley spent the next ten years travelling extensively in Asia, Africa and Europe and wrote numerous historical books, including works on the state of the Ottoman Empire. Sir Paul was elected a Fellow of the Royal Society on 12 December 1666, knighted at Whitehall in 1685 and died in November 1700.

However, Sir Paul and his mother Dame Mary's struggle with finances were to no avail and Dame Mary was forced to sell The Friars in 1657 to Sir John Banks, a businessman who sold supplies to the British Navy. In the 1670s he turned The Friars into fine Caroline mansion where his visitors included the diarist Samuel Pepys. Elizabeth Banks inherited The Friars from her father and her husband, Heneage Finch, became the 1st Earl of Aylesford. He lived at The Friars but the family then moved to Packington Hall, Warwickshire. They did not live at The Friars again, although it was, at times, used as the dower house and was frequently rented out to other families.

John Banks
John Banks Tomb

CaptionPortrait of John Banks of Maidstone, attributed to Lely, at Packington Hall. John Banks bought the Friars from Lady Rycaut. John’s grandfather also named John, was a successful woollen draper who married into a Kentish family of lesser Gentry. His father Caleb, was a leading member of the Maidstone business community. Caleb, was a JP, three times Mayor of Maidstone, and had served on the County Committee. He was shrewd and enterprising, always on the lookout for a good deal. John Banks inherited this business acumen and was politic enough to know when he needed to be flexible. 17th Century

CaptionJohn Banks’ tomb in Aylesford parish Church. Sir John lived on until 1699, his wife and son Caleb both predeceasing him. 17th Century

20th Century

In the twentieth century Mrs Woolsey and her son-in-law Mr Copley Hewitt, lavished care on the house. At this time The Friars became an important centre for scouting activities and Lord Baden-Powell visited on one occasion. A fire in 1930 caused immense damage but the restoration work brought to light many original features. 

In 1949 The Friars was put up for sale, so the Carmelites were able to buy back their motherhouse. Fr Malachy Lynch, the first Prior began the task of restoring the buildings and within a short time The Friars became a flourishing pilgrimage centre. 

In partnership with Adrian Gilbert Scott, Fr Malachy conceived the idea of the open-air shrine and he gathered craftsmen and artists to help him. Work began on building the Shrine in 1958. 

Outstanding among the artists were Adam Kossowski, who made the ceramics, and Philip Lindsey Clark and his son Michael Clark, both sculptors. Fr Malachy described The Friars as "a prayer in stone". 

In the presence of Cardinal Heenan, Archbishop Cyril Cowderoy rededicated the Shrine in 1965 and it now serves as a centre of prayer for all Christians in Kent and a place of peace for those who search for meaning in their lives.

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CaptionThe aftermath of The Fire in 1930

21st Century (The friars today)

In the last two decades the work of rebuilding has continued but another vital thing has happened. The friars has become more and more part of the life of the County of Kent – both religious and social. Besides religious activities, countless organisations enjoy using the facilities at The Friars for meetings and celebrations. The beauty of the place and the wonderful works of art have also attracted the media, and over the last few years the BBC and ITV have broadcast a number of wonderfully made programmes from The Friars .

For Carmelites, prayer and work make a seamless whole so, while personal and public prayer is at the core of their lives, they are also busy serving the community.

Each member of the community has his area of work at the priory, be it in administration, maintenance or giving retreats and counselling. Some of the friars work outside in the community at large in prison work, school and hospital chaplaincy and local radio to name a few areas of activity. This is the main difference between friars and monks. Friars have a community life, and the fraternity gives them the support that enables them to go out and work among people, spreading gospel values in whatever way is appropriate to the time and place.

Comparison between early Friar and Todays Friar
Friars in the 21st C

CaptionComparison of the original friars and the friars today at study.