Pilgrimage & Retreat
Pilgrimages
Large groups come on pilgrimage from April to October to pray at the Shrine to seek God's blessing and to honour Our Lady. The Friars was always a traditional stop in medieval times and, in fact, the Pilgrims’ Hall, the oldest building at The Friars, is so named because it offered hospitality and accommodation for travellers to Canterbury. This custom of hospitality to Pilgrims continues today. Each year a program of pilgrimages is organised here at the Shrine of Our Lady. Members of the community at Aylesford priory are involved in working with many of the groups that come to The Friars during the course of the year. Some groups will ask for one of the friars to work alongside them. As well as this work, the community organises a number of retreats each year which are open to anyone who wishes to participate.
Guests can make their own retreat, booking just their rooms and meals through the Reception. A special pilgrimage leaflet, obtainable from the Reception Office, or online below gives details of the main pilgrimages throughout the summer which all are welcome to join. Anyone wishing to bring a group should contact the Pilgrimage Secretary via email mark.coatsworth@thefriars.org.uk
Pilgrimages, Parish Days and All Night Vigils are also a regular feature of life at The Friars. For this years leaflet please click on picture below.
Retreats
There is a programme of retreats arranged by the Carmelite Community, a leaflet giving details is available on request in the Reception Office or click the picture below. Individuals are also welcomed to come to stay and join in the prayer life of The Friars. The community is willing to co-operate in days of recollection for groups who request them and to give help and guidance to schools organising either days of recollection or residential retreats.
A Duty Friar is available for confessions, blessings, and short meetings daily. Please enquire with the reception for times or see the Service Page.
For more details, please email reception@thefriars.org.uk
Carmelite Spirituality Series.
Since the first lockdown the Carmelite Community, our friends and supporters have recorded a number of talks related to Carmelite spirituality. We hope you appreciate them. watch here

Spiritual Direction Training at Aylesford Priory

Spiritual Direction or Spiritual Accompaniment provides a one-to-one setting for people seeking a deeper awareness of the presence of God in their lives, and discernment within life choices.
The one-year training programme is ecumenical and teaches both the theory and practice of spiritual direction. It aims to deepen understanding of the process of spiritual growth and the insights of different spiritual traditions. The course offers a supportive environment where you will learn to give and receive accompaniment.
For more details email Marie Mann tpsdaylesford@gmail.com

